Friday, July 29, 2011

Sugar Ray Dyke Jr - Hypocrite or Idiot?



The problem with Ray Dyke Jr is that he feels he can sit by, judging fat women, ugly folks or just about anyone he feels like laughing at today. When people post replies to his daily questions, anyone who's opinion he doesn't believe in is quickly degraded by his all knowing wisdom.




He really should focus less on how Harry Potter goes against God and the Bible and focus more on the bible itself, in case you need help, here is a good place to start. Luke 6:37 Judge not, and ye shall not be judged:




If only he would realize that his shit stinks, well then, maybe he can take a good hard look at his self and decide if being the Facebook hypocrite should really garner all of this diva-tude he totes about.




And really Ray? You only added ME to help me overcome guilt that my friend put you in that chair? Maybe my guilt only lies in the fact that YOU are the only one who survived, while I wish my friend had instead. He certainly wasn't the piece of trash you have shown yourself to be on Myspace, Facebook, and lord knows where else you will take your convoy next.




And for the LOVE of GOD quit lying, I didn't add you to my page. You poked me like 40 times before I even emailed you. And you kept sending your pityful E-cards. over and over, and I still haven't looked at a single one, they have been going to my spam folder for months. Stupid lying F*ck.




Did you get to tell your lemmings how you used to ask me for naked pictures? Or about you wanted me to come over and reminded me that not everything below your waist was paralyzed? If you really want to persist, I can start slapping all of those Myspace messages you sent me asking and telling all of the above. And that my dear, won't be defamation either. Simply because there is proof and it is truth.




So when your lawyer asks you if all of the things I am saying is true, are you going to hide your Facebook page where you defame a new person, at least one, each day? Are you going to hack my Myspace inbox so they can't see all of the pervy crap you wrote to me? No need buddy, the police took that when they left. They called it the activities of an "Internet Predatory combined with a very immature Bully"




So just have your Lawyer call Bedford Co Police, OR, he can contact my Lawyer directly. When you prove that ANYTHING on this page is false, and therefore defamation, I will remove it. But what are YOU going to do when Facebook jerks your whole page for doing that daily?



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Our Strength in the Face of Adversity Acts as a Mirror to Reflect the Projected Ignorance Back Onto The Offender, Even if the Offender is Sugar Ray


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Each year on May 16th, Ray Dyke Jr makes a post about his accident back in 93, and each year he tells his own convoluted story about the drivers in the other car.




"They both had suspended permits for DUIs" WRONG JERKOFF, Steve Kinzie had NEVER had a DUI, his license was taken from him because a careless friend left a beer in the back of his car, he was charged with an open container, NOT A DUI. My friend wasn't driving that car, and HAD HE LIVED, he would have lived with the guilt of causing someones death for the rest of his life.




For someone who is always demanding that someone 'Get their facts straight', he sure hasn't bothered fact finding on pretty much anything he post.




Worse yet, is that Ray Dyke Jr always insist that he is pristine clean, and without fault in much of anything.




What if the only survivor knows nothing but half truths and is determined to lay down judgement on a friend I have known for life. Well, again, that doesn't increase my faith in so called Christian goodness. It also shows the extreme ignorance that one man with so much to say, spews lies as often as possible.



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Don't feel so bad Ray, just because over 50 people have Facebook liked this post doesn't mean they are on my side, it just means they don't like you either.


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The funniest part came yesterday when he asked about Quarterbacks. I posted that I was for Vick and why I believed he had served his time. The response I received was similar to what you would get from an old man who has a bleeding hemorrhoid he just can't deal with.




His response was:
Ray wrote: "Okay, this was a FOOTBALL question...I don't give a shit about your opinions of the man's conscience regarding animals...that's NOT what THIS POST is ABOUT, so CONTRIBUTE to the SUBJECT OF THIS POST or CARRY YO' ASS...PERIOD !!"




Umm, excuse me, who the f*ck do you think you are talking to that way? Apparently you didn't realize you were talking to someone who could quickly send your name to the top of the search engine in a NICE way or in a way you deserved.




Just for the record Ray, it is NO wonder your woman left you, if that's how you talk to people about a subject as petty as a Quarterback, I'd hate to see how you respond to a woman who doesn't serve you properly. The only reason you likely aren't a woman beater, is because you simply can't catch them. Well, unless they were fat, and we all know what scum of the earth you think anyone overweight is, you post that every single day on your page.




And then he had the gall to defend Nancy Grace. Nancy Grace? Really, that FAKE pos who judges people for their color, religion, and lays down judgements on anyone and everyone she comes across. I got news for you Ray Dyke Jr., if YOU had an interview with her, she would quickly be all sympathetic to your plight, until she realized that you live on welfare when there are jobs out there that would accommodate you. So I bashed Nancy Grace and that got on YOUR nerves.




You have been on my nerves with your 30 times per day postings about what music you like, how great your spiders are doing, or which unfortunate person you want to make fun of today. You preach about God a lot. Why don't you stop judging people then? God has made it very clear that NO ONE IS TO JUDGE ANYONE BUT HIM..... you hypocritical POS.




So here is to you Ray Dyke Jr. From now on when people Google your name. THIS IS THE FIRST THING THEY WILL SEE!




So once again, congratz for being a true piece of trash, who knows nothing more than what goes on outside his front door.




So for all of those who blindly follow your musings. Please refer to the picture above.



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Wait. Did I just read someone bash you for daring to pass judgments on her stupid, drunk out his f*cking a$$ mind, murdering, a$$hole of a friend????? WTF!!!




If that's what you read, you may need reading lessons. My friend wasn't driving that car, and bashing dead people really? Didn't your mother, or your mothers baby daddy teach you any better?




Brent Hughes I mean...what did all that have to do w/ the other? I think obviously she still has some guilt she hasn't dealt with. I say just leave her be. You have nothing to prove or gain.




I would have been able to enjoy this maybe had I not been blocked so the bashing could begin. I do have guilt over the accident Ray was in, but NOT because of Ray, but because I feel responsible that I wasn't driving my friend that night. STEVE didn't drive and was not driving that car that night because he had an open container in his car that a crappy friend had left, causing him to lose his license. He was due to get it back 4 days after he died, he NEVER had a DUI or any other violation but that one. . I feel guilty that HE is dead and I could have changed that by driving him instead of the POS drunk that did. That guy, I have not a thing for




Jeannie McCool I have been following all the comments made today.I knew exactly who was behind this as soon as I saw this post. It deffinatly is defamation of character.I still love ya Ray!!!




Look up the definition of defamation for gods sake before you lick his brown eye some more




Brent, that's what I was thinkin'...I want to have my lawyers go after her now, but I wouldn't gain anything but a trailer and some red dirt...




That's funny. Did you know I own three houses in Roanoke City and one in Roanoke County? None are trailers and their lawns are nicely tended. Tard, at least try to toss an insult that is something you MAY know about




Jeannie, I love ya' right back...I'm not at all worried or bothered by her, considering who she is and what she is...




And what would that be? A grown mother of 2 sons who has been married 15 years and has a successful career? What exactly are you besides someone who gets their kicks making fun of other people. What does that make you exactly? Childish? None of the words that come to my mind are nice




Cheryl Imissmiami Whisner I just feel that emotions didn't have to go where it did on either part ....either did the topic ....clearly the are unresolved feelings...the story makes me sad ...




Unfortunately I am always prepared to defend myself when being insulted, so the fact that I was insulted, told to 'go to bed' or just in general degraded about my opinion was just trash, ON HIS PART




Ray Dyke Jr. Either part, Cheryl...??




And here is his, hoping that YOU too will say something that annoys him so that he can launch in on you and how wrong your statement was and how righteous his is




Cheryl Imissmiami Whisner Yes u should have just ignored her when it started going all crazy ....I can't do that back and forth stuff mayne..lol..but this link of hers is just going too far...why the public announcement?? Is it really necessary?




It is NO MORE necessary than him to spend the entire night and day bashing me, talking about how my parents didn't bring me up right etc. No, its not necessary, its retaliation, and its going to keep on going until he finds something else more interesting about himself to smear on his page. My page? It won't go away, he should have thought about that before he began defaming ME, my family and my DEAD MOTHER.




Melissa Danielle Merricks-Bolen Well I'm certainly no english major but for someone who is a "full time freelance writer" her spelling, grammer, punctuation & sentence structure are terrible. That aside, its funny to see someone so critical of what you're doing daily-mainly for entertainment purposes-feel the need take it upon themselves to get all high & mighty & try to call you out!? She really needs to get a life...pathetic




You are certainly right about one thing, you are no 'english' major and can't even spell grammar correctly. And you can simply screw yourself. Calling ME high and mighty? I'd much more think that a person who sits behind their computer making fun of those less fortunate them him to be High and Mighty. And now you join that crew as well. And I have a life ho, thanks very much. I made over 120 dollars JUST while I was creating this post. How much did you make for licking his ass when you made yours?




Ray Dyke Jr. Cheryl, you're probably right...I should have just deleted her and not continued to get her to shut up like I did...my new policy will be a lot more simple now and I'm sorry you had to see all that, hun !!




Melissa, that's what I get for having a big heart and not holding a grudge, eh ?? Once I found out how she was tied to the idiots that put me in this wheelchair, I should have NEVER let her "clear her conscience" by accepting her as an associate...period !!
And I should have never stopped those punks from finishing their job, had I not jumped in, your ass would have been in a wheelchair a lot sooner, if you had lived.




So full of sh*t still. I didn't even tell you who I was until we had been 'friends' on myspace for quite some time. And you sure as hell didn't clear my conscious. The only way that would happen is if I could trade you for my dead friend right now. All you do is talk sh*t you don't even KNOW about the ONE boy I cared about in that car. You keep saying two, even though I told you myself the other guy was a piece of sh*t. Go be righteous where it matters, carry your sorry a$$ to church and repent for what a piece of sh*t god left laying around here that night."




Yeah I said it, all out in the open, do something about it.




Melissa Danielle Merricks-Bolen I just read the other post & she was clearly looking for a fight...interested to see if this is it or if she's cooking up anymore bullshit-LOSER




Again slowby, I wasn't looking for a fight, I was defending myself, and I'll do it anytime some low life piece of trash thinks to tell me to go to bed, or stop talking. And he only deleted me because I wouldn't CALL him like he begged me to 100 times, pouted, got mad about. Actually, this reminds me, Ill go grab up my old Myspace post where he was doing just that and show you! Thanks for the reminder, Idiot.




Ray Dyke Jr. FUNNY THING IS: she came to me a couple months ago, saying she wanted to help me start my own website and even offered to help me make money with my writing...the site she was talkin' about was THIS LINK, same diagram and all, only it was with POSITIVE things about how much I HELP people and my SENSE OF HUMOR and how I ROSE ABOVE the situation of being in a wheelchair...she sought me out, expressing remorse for her friend being reckless and drving drunk and blah, blah, blah...I actually felt bad for her, befriending her so she could see there were no hard feelings and to hopefully let her find some clsure for herself...now, she does THIS, using the same site she CLAIMED was to help me...pre-meditated c*ntdom, I tell ya' !!




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Again with the lies, my friend was NOT driving that car you tard. This site was only a temporary one, as you can see from the email I shared with you then, omg can you EVER stop lying? Email to Ray about the Squidoo Page being a temporary one "Joy Lyn for your eyes ONLY so far. It is FAR from done, gotta get you the domain name before i can finish it. So PLZ PLZ let me know if you see anything there u want changed. This will be what we use to get NEW users to your own personal site when we get it up.


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So FYI moron, buying you a domain name means that your new address would have been DrSugarRay.com, I already bought it and had my web master working on it, for NO other reason than I am a nice person. But that doesn't mean you get to diss me and just breeze away, or tell me to go to bed, f*king idiot. You screwed yourself out of a few thousand dollars a year with your mouth, and you say I wasn't raised right? I was raised right enough that even though I am disabled, I STILL WORK and don't let the government come plant flowers in my yard.




Felecia Rose Grasty Ray, she needs her A$$ kicked!! U are truly an inspiration person, and as a sister of a brother that was killed by a drunk driver, reading your story and seeing your posts everyday, makes me feel good and I have never fully forgave that man who killed my brother 23 years ago until I read your story and I said that I have to forgive, because it makes my heart stronger and that is what Clint, my brother would've wanted me to do, you inspire and make ppl laugh, some ppl are stuck up-set in their own ways, all you can do for them is pray for them, and just let her ego crumble as noone will listen to her junk..Thank-you and Goodbye!!




Please come kick my a$$, even if I have to give up alot of dollars in work for the few minutes it will take me to put you in your place, it will be worth it.




Michele Doron smh Man I want to b*tch slap her. I missed the whole exchange that started this but wtf? You are one of the funniest, kindest person I have ever had the pleasure of knowing on here. Keep doing what you do and don't let her or anyone else associated with her try to bring you down!




See my above reply to the last idiot that said I need to have physical violence inflicted on me, I'll be waiting outside for you too. However, if you are just an E-thug, kindly stfu and don't write checks your lame ass can't cash




OH, I got THIS from her HUSBAND (the SAME husband she cried to me about on numerous occasions, claiming he was abusive) this morning:




Ray Dyke Jr. And then he blocked me...so I couldn't "respond"... *smirk*




Just like you did me you mean? Do you BREATHE hypocrite, or does it only come alive once you open your eyes.



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Then be prepared to be bashed for not replying to his questions in the manner in which he has designated to be the only form allowed. This includes ass kissing, total agreement, and hanging your head low if the master determines your answer isn't up to his standards.




And had I known that all these years later, Ray Dyke Jr would turn into such an idiot, I certainly would have let those 200 punks finish rolling him around on the floor instead of jumping in and getting smashed in the face with a beer bottle for defending him.




I know Ill sleep at night, but I won't reach out again to help someone who is so narcissistic that they can't see the forest past their own inflated egos. Ray, you need to roll your ass on back to your mothers house and ask her to re-teach you those lessons most moms teach their kids in elementary school.

Friday, March 11, 2011

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Tuesday, January 25, 2011

How Roanoke Temporary Services Screw Over Employees and Employers


This isn't just about Roanoke Va Temporary Services, I just need the tags for SEO purposes. What this is about is how temporary services are increasingly helping to destroy the economy, increase unemployment numbers and just in general provide a service that is more harmful than helpful.

Know how I know? I've worked on all sides of the coin. I've been an administrator for an international company, an employee at a Roanoke Temp service, and a temporary worker for several of them.

So Why Do Companies Use Temp Services?

  • The obvious of course, is it takes a world of paperwork, insurance filing, and just in general administrative mayhem to hire one person. When that hired person fails to perform their duties, and are fired, or do not show up, there is yet more paperwork mayhem that ensues for said administrators. This means hours of wasted wages for the admin of that company.
  • Because they can get employees now.
  • Because someone else handles all of the paperwork involved in hiring, W-9's etc.
  • Because temporary services have convinced them it is the best option for their company for mostly only the above listed reasons.

At What Cost?

The cost is considerable, and not just on a monetary basis.

You can almost guarantee that if a temp worker is knocking down an whole 8 dollars an hour, the temp service is making at least four dollars per hour off of that employee alone.

Does this add up?

Let's say an administrator can waste a whole day hiring and firing one employee. That is giving it WAY more than required, unless the employee is being hired for a government job, which by the way, does not use temporary services. Think about that a moment. Since when does the government not take advantage of things that are truly good 'deals.'

If this administrator makes 20 per hour, an 8 hour day brings in $160 dollars. We will be generous and not tax her or him.

Drug testing - $150
Background Check - $60
Employee Equipment - $400
Other Fees $200

These are VERY high estimates, and honestly, I don't even know what the other fees would entail, but I added them to buffer the impact that is coming.

This comes to $970 dollars.

If the temp employee makes $8 per hour. An unlivable wage by the way, they are paid $320 before taxes. $160, what it would cost the administrator to hire and fire if they were sloth slow, is what the temporary service gets to keep, just for one week.

Temporary Services

When working for one Roanoke Va Temp Service, I was actually trained to 'get as many signed up as you can', but when asked about providing them jobs, I got a shoulder shrug, and told that when the jobs came in, they would get them.

Now, before I worked there, I had been on the other side of the desk. And I remembered how incredibly annoying it was to spend 4 hours at a temp service, registering, taking test, more useless crap and so on. So I was pretty annoyed with that casual reply.

In 4 hours, a person hunting employment, can put in oh, 16 resumes or applications with a REAL company. Even in this economy, that should reap some results at some point. The problem is, no one but the temporary services OWN these jobs. They have them, people apply, the company ignores them the moment they are signed up.

My husband was laid off last year, he is now registered with every temporary service in Roanoke. They pay him under well under $10 per hour while I know they are making $13.50. They display FAKE JOBS in the Roanoke Times online and Daily paper advertising how desperate they are for help.

But when I put in FAKE APPLICATIONS, of course, I only get the 'Come on in and sign up' trip. I don't even need a job. But I can't tell you how freakin' disgusting it is to see a job pop up that my husband is OVER QUALIFIED for, at a service he is registered for. Yet when I email them to inquire, I actually get IGNORED. No replies, no acknowledgment. Do they even know about email confirmations?

How Does this Affect Companies Who Hire Temp Workers?

First and foremost you are not getting a 'deal.'

  • You are getting struggling, frustrated workers, likely with no health insurance, probably with a second or third job to support their insulting 8 dollar an hour temp job at a 15 dollar an hour company.
  • You get workers who know how screwed they are getting, and find no pleasure in it at all.
  • You get employees who will RIGHTFULLY refuse to do dangerous or difficult jobs for $7.50 an hour while the person next to them makes $16.45 to order them to do so. I am quite sure that "I ain't doing this for no temp job," is commonly heard, and a common cause of dismissal for temp workers. And yes there are more where they came from, unfortunately, they feel the same way.
  • You get employees who have no loyalty, company morale, or initiative to see that your product or service succeeds. And why should they? You don't even show enough respect for them to ALLOW them to have insurance they have to pay for to keep their families healthy and ALIVE.

As far as I am concerned, companies are selling out human decency in place of a couple of minor conveniences that actually cost far more than they are worth.

But let's not forget where we were.

The Math

I hate math and my husband isn't home so bear with me.

We showed that an employee made a temp service $160 the first week. And here is the catch. Years ago, when Temp services in Roanoke, Va hired temporary employees, they were just that, temporary. Do your four to six months, and you would be hired on. I won at least 3 jobs this way myself, one of them I met almost none of the educational requirements for, and was paid substantially in wages, training, and business knowledge.

Nowadays, Temp services in Roanoke barely even bother lying to you to tell you it could go permanent. Most of the time they tell you it won't. It's permanently temporary. I don't have an economics degree, and neither apparently do many people in Roanoke Va that hire temporary workers.

The first week, the Roanoke Temporary service made $160.

Realistically, you may need to work one year through them before the company themselves have to WRENCH you away from the temp service. Often they have to even pay additional fees to hire on a worker they want, very discouraging for them. So at that rate. A Roanoke Temp service will make:

160 x 4 x12 =
$7680 per year

Paid at the rate they would have been had they been hired on at the company directly, this employee would have made:

$23,040 that year. A livable wage

However, working for your company, he or she only made $15,360.

If you are a business owner and do not think that an additional $7680 per year, with insurance, 401k and other benefits people actually need to live, wouldn't buy you an employee with a bit more loyalty, care and concern for their job, and willingness to show up on time everyday, than you need to head on over to Virginia Western and grab a Psychology class or two.

The Economy?

The economy is still struggling, as it has been for years, companies are dumping employees in large batches still, and some have begun the hiring process again. But really, why are so many companies handing over this monopoly on jobs to these temp services in Roanoke who have not many goals other then getting a huge influx of 'signer uppers', and rarely handing out real jobs?

Do they really see this as beneficial to their bottom line? It is actually the total opposite. Not only that, but you are taking the hiring process, the very process your own administrators with knowledge of your company and its needs, and handing it over to someone who doesn't even have a business degree. I didn't and I was a full time 'Temp Service Hiring Agent.'

I didn't know how your business REALLY worked. Knowing what you sell, and knowing the production process are two different things no?

I didn't know that someone under a certain height couldn't do the job you needed covered. I didn't know that a particular position required someone who could tolerate a lot of heat.

If it wasn't such an immoral thing to do, it would almost be funny. Paying a temporary service, 14 dollars per hour, for a temporary employee making $10, is almost guaranteed to get you a 'temporary' worker. That is, one who knows how unimportant, insubstantial, and shaky their position is within your company and is likely to act accordingly.

Why any one who is smart enough to own a business sees this as a lucrative undertaking is beyond me.